4 Easy Ways to Find Time to Blog
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How to find time to blog…that is a question I hear all the time. I myself struggle with it. First off, as a mother, we put everything before ourselves. Even if you are treating your blog like a business you can still end up putting it at the bottom of the to-do list.
For me, I feel a bit guilty when I am working on my blog and there is a pile of laundry that needs done or the floors need swept (oh the dog hair never ends!).
I am a stay at home mom and so I feel like those are my duties. My job that I get paid zero dollars for but wouldn’t trade it for anything is to take care of the house and everyone in it.
That is a lot to take care of! I’m not complaining I am stating the truth! As stay at home/work from home moms we wear many hats.
We are in charge of the cooking, cleaning, grocery shopping, kid’s activities, vet and doctor appointments, paying the bills, meal planning, laundry, did I say cleaning? Because it should be listed twice because it is never ending…..(again oh the dang dog hair!).
Two Full-Time Jobs
That alone is more than a full-time job. Then what if you really do have a full-time job! If you have to leave your house and go to a full-time job plus do all of that then you are amazing! I have been there and it is extremely hard! Especially when you have to drive an hour to and from work.
What I have learned from working outside of the home is to plan and to be as prepared as much as possible to make the week go by smoother. Now that I am a stay at home mom I still try and plan everything out as much as I can.
The hard part about being a work from home mom, for me anyways, is that my boss is pretty chill…she let’s me do what ever I want (that’s because it’s me). Even worse is my husband is completely fine with it to!
I don’t like when things don’t get done so when I am falling behind he always tells me “It’s fine! Just relax and watch T.V.”. Not because he is going to help so he doesn’t quite understand that just makes more work for me later.
Again, I do take my mommy duties very serious and so therefore I put them all before my blog.
I tell myself all day “okay, after I finish this I am going to work on my blog” and then you know how it works in the middle of that project you see something else that has to be done.
So I decided that I needed to move my blog higher up on the priority list. When I worked outside of the house unfortunately work came first. I had to go to work. I had to be there dressed and on time. So I needed to treat my blog that way if I wanted it to be a success.
My husband is hopeful for my blog but he definitely thinks it is a hobby and so when I stress and say “I have to work on my blog” he says “well you don’t HAVE to”…because he pays the bills so it’s not like we can’t survive without it…but that’s not the point right?
We aren’t doing this because we HAVE to….well maybe you are…but most I would say we are doing it because we WANT to!
We want to have something that is ours! We want to still be important and add value and be more than just someone’s mom or wife.
I want to prove that I can and honestly I want to make more than my husband because in this world the husbands usually make more than the wives so I think that would be pretty cool! #goals
I have focused on making more time for my blog and I want to share with you how I have done it.
#1 IF YOU FAIL TO PLAN…..PLAN TO FAIL
(Or as my very dear friend calls it….get your poop in a group…haha!)
I know you have heard it before but it is so very true! I grew up with a wing it kind of attitude. My mom is very carefree and is definitely not known for her promptness or preparedness. I think it is because of that my older sister and I tend to be more proactive and try to be on time and prepared.
Now since we weren’t raised that way we have had to find our own path to become that way. I say that because we are by no means perfect at it.
Sometimes it feels like it is more work but it makes the week go by so much smoother.
This weekend I planned out our meals for the whole month. As I planned it out I added my groceries to my Wal-Mart grocery pickup order online. The next day I went and picked up my groceries and then prepped our meals for the rest of the week. I prepped lunches for my daughter at school and all dinners.
We will have enough food for left overs for lunch and no one is a big breakfast eater.
We all just grab a protein bar or something. Now I don’t have to spend 30-45 mins trying to figure out what to make for supper each night and finally deciding to just order pizza.
That is a fairly obvious time saver that many SAHM’s probably already do. It did take up a big portion of my weekend but now I have saved a bunch of time and stress over meals all week. Also when I added up home much we would save by not eating out so much I was shocked!
Saving dough and dough (pizza dough and dollar bills!)
I didn’t think we were spending that much eating out because there are only three of us…but yep we will save a bunch!
My plan is to regroup each weekend and see what all I still have left and what I still need to get and then preorder it and pick it up!
If you are not a War-Mart fan then I know other stores offer this feature as well! It saves me the hassle of waiting in line and dealing with all the peoples (especially now during the holidays) and it also keeps me from over spending too!
Just like planning out food it helps so much if you plan out outfits too. My daughter is NOT a morning person so we don’t have too much of an argument when it comes to getting dressed because she is usually half asleep when I’m helping her get ready haha! But it makes it even more smooth sailing if we pick them out together Sunday evening.
We know which days she has P.E. and needs to wear tennis shoes and so on. This also ensures that we don’t miss any fun activites at school like pajama day or crazy sock day. We are already ready for the week!
So you can see how planning in life then frees up time to work on your blog…so what do you think you should do with your blog? That’s right! Plan! If you can get your blog more organized then when you find the time you won’t spent 30 minutes of it trying to remember what you were doing before when you were working on your blog.
Also another great thing that will help with that is to stay consistent. Then there won’t be gaps in between working on it and you will be less likely to feel so lost when you try and pick it back up!
Some people are born motivated and just go go and you can’t get them to slow down….*coughs: my husband!* He literally jumps out of bed around 5 am and does not stop until he is forced to slow down at night and then when he stops moving for more than 10 seconds he is asleep.
He has been that way since I met him. Most of our friends call him a robot because he requires very little sleep…some times zero. I have seen him go strong and hard for almost 48 hours. Running on maybe a 30 minute cat nap.
I however hibernate every night and I wish that I had his motivation. Just like my daughter I am not a morning person myself. I want to be!
I get up sometimes around 5 and go run and will accomplish so much that day but then it takes days for me to recoup.
What motivates you?
If you are like me and you need to find something to help push you through the day then find what motivates you! That will make a huge difference! Are you goal oriented? Do you like a lot of coffee? Do you like to check things off your to do list? Do you like to workout? Do you have an accountability partner?
Find something that will drive you to make time for you and your business! What has helped me tremendously is Spark. It is a vitamin “energy drink” that gives me mental focus. It’s sugar free so guilt free and it has helped me so much! I started drinking it in 2012 and I have rarely gone a day without it!
Spark at Disney
We recently went to Disney World for my daughters birthday then came home and celebrated Thanksgiving. I drank the rest of my Spark while at Disney but I wanted to wait to order more until Cyber Monday when AdvoCare always has a sale (even though I already get a hefty discount).
While I was waiting to order I just decided to go back to drinking coffee with my husband. I didn’t put two and two together until I found a Spark in the cabinet a couple days later and drank it. On the coffee I was awake and alert but I had zero motivation.
Literally not thinking anything about it I drank my found Spark and within 30 minutes I was ready to take on anything! Then it hit me! I hadn’t realized how much it helped me be motivated and stay focused! I won’t let myself run out again!
Get your blood flowing!
Maybe you like to workout and you could go for a run in the mornings? That always helps get the blood flow going and helps me not feel so sluggish.
Also, as I said before some people require more sleep than others. There is no replacement for sleep!
Find your purpose, your passion, and remember why you are doing this to begin with. Write that on your mirror so you can read it every morning. Remind yourself why it is important for you to move your blogging business to the top of the to do list.
If you had a normal 9-5 job then you would have to put work first and everything else second so make sure you do that now! Ya know, except for taking care of the kids! Or maybe you currently do have a 9-5 job and you are looking for time to work on your blog…again stay motivated to find time.
Find 30 mintues
Get up 30 mintues earlier than normal and work on it. Work on it over your lunch. If you have a packed schedule you will have to really look at your day and see where you can squeeze in time but having that motivation makes a huge difference. If you don’t then it’s easy to come up with excuses.
For me I am pretty lucky my daughter goes to school all day so I do have most of the day to myself to work. That doesn’t mean that I still don’t see everything that needs done around the house and end up doing that instead plus I have to run errands for my husband a lot as well that takes up time.
Oddly enough for some reason when people know you stay at home they assume your free to do whatever so I get asked to help let the neighbors dogs out and stuff that doesn’t take long but still takes up precious time.
My sister lives down the street and is a work from home mom to four children that she home schools….yes, that’s right we live different lives her and I!
What works for her with 4 kids
She said the best way for her to get time to work on her online business is to get up with her husband at 4:45-5am and help get him off to work and then she works on her business until the kids wake up. She said at first she woke them up around 7:30 and they did school but it didn’t seem to work for their family.
She now let’s them wake up on their own which is later in the morning but it works better for them. This new schedule gives her a few hours to work before the kids wake up. It also means the kids are more rested and alert during their school time.
#3 MAP OUT YOUR DAY
Mapping out your daily routine will help you find time you didn’t know you had. I did this and it shows I have all kinds of time but yet I was like “where is it all going?” and turns out that life happens and yes things come up (like watching the neighbors dogs) that you have to do but you can’t let that take away from your business.
By mapping out your daily routine you can see where you can make things more efficient. Maybe you like to get up and drink a cup of coffee and watch the news to wake up but then you are struggling to find time to work on your blog.
Well, maybe you have to give up that coffee and news time and try and switch it to coffee and blog time. Then you will see progress on your blog! Or maybe you watch TV at night after you put the kids to bed that you could cut out and make time for your blog.
I have met people that completely cut TV off in their homes because it is a distraction to their goals. I would have to agree it most certainly is a distraction for me.
I don’t have it on at all during the day so I can focus and work on my blog and then I may reward myself with a little Big Bang Theory at night. If I was looking for more time then I would cut it out as well.
If your schedule is overwhelmed with cleaning (did I meantion I have a dog that shreds?) then I would break it up into daily tasks so then you get a little done each day instead of feeling like you have to clean the whole house everyday.
Or maybe if someone would buy me this vacuum for Christmas that would help! haha!
Delegate tasks out to save you some time
As soon as I feel I have made enough money with my blog to be comfortable with it I plan on hiring someone to come clean my house for me. I am not a tax expert but I believe it would be a write off for my business (I am all about getting the most bang out of my buck) and my sanity would be worth it alone!
I always feel silly telling people I have one child and she is at school all day and I am short on time…but My husband is gone way more than he is here and when he is here is makes and mess and leaves again. Also he works very hard at his job and then runs a lawn care company on the side.
I am in charge of invoices, scheduling, running errands, paying bills, all of that stuff on top of my many mommy hats I have to wear. Oh, ya and I am trying to build my own online business. So even with one child we are short on time.
I feel like God knew that was what was best for us. We have tried for 7 years for another and after MANY surgeries, dr appts, blood draws, etc later we found out we can’t. So there is a little bit of our story.
Anyways, I think you will be very surprised how much time you can find by mapping out your daily routine!
#4 ASK FOR HELP
No one said you have to do this alone. If your husband is on board and is home more than mine (lol!) then ask him to watch the kids so you can work on your business. If your sister, mother, or friend would help watch the kiddos so you can work then ask them!
It takes a village to raise children and so there is no reason you can’t ask for help watching the kids so you can have some time for you and your business!
Or if you are to that point that you need help with your business because it is growing so fast then hiring a Virtual Assistant to help you!
Another great option is if you don’t already then get an accountability partner to help keep you on track or my favorite that I just came up with for myself is an accountibilty calendar!
There is always so much to do and so little time to do it that the days just go by and the next thing you know its supper, bath and bed time! Even worse yet now it’s been a week or more and you haven’t even logged into your blog!
That is not being consistent and not helping grow your business. It seems like I just worked on it and then I realize it has been days or even weeks….I know it’s horrible!
So I have decided to make an accountibility calendar to keep myself in check. You can make one for yourself that meets your needs or you can get a copy of mine below!
On this calendar the main goal is to help you work daily on your blog. Whether that is 30 mintues a day or more that is up to you but again the main goal is to make sure you are doing something daily. That right there alone I feel will make a huge difference.
Then when you are frusterated with your blogging business and you look back at your calendar and realize that you haven’t touched it in two weeks well then you will know why.
This calendar will also hold you accountable for not wasting your blog time. This will help to show you what you are accomplishing on your blog. If you are like most normal people that get sucked into emails and facebook then you will see where your struggle is.
I hope this calendar helps you move forward with your online blogging business! I look forward to how much it is going to help me so I can’t wait to hear if it helps you!
Or maybe you’re still not sure if blogging is even right for you?
If you aren’t sure then I encourage you to read my post How to Tell If Blogging is Right For You and find out before stressing out too much!
My favorite saying that I have writen on my fridge is “Massive action solves all problems”. I think about that when I get stuck or feel a little lost.
I will over think and analyse and realize that I have wasted 15 mintues stressing over what I should do next that I could have accomplished something if I would have just done it!
If I feel like the house is a wreck, I need to do invoices for the lawn care, I need to write a blog post, where to I start? I just start!
The more I can get done in a day whether it was in the right order or not if going to be more than I would have gotten down stressing about it and wasting time.
So for today I leave you with those two reminders:
1. If you fail to plan…..plan to fail
2. Massive action solves all problems
I have just heard those over the years and I don’t know who was the first person to say them or I would give them credit but they were both smart people I can tell you that!
Don’t forget to get your copy of my calendar if you haven’t already!